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what to do about my aunt?
during my college days, my aunt was the one who support my studies, every time she gave me a gift, and whenever she will get mad at me, she always wants to get back of what she was given to me, and she didn't explain to me why,,one time she gave a cellphone and then she get's mad because she always doubted to me that i didn't go to school,while she sees my good grades, and then she read all my messages,uncover things that i have,saying unkind words, and spank at me then i felt no privacy at all, degrade, shy and don't want to talk to anybody,that all started my failing grades, and always told me that i am lazy, i didn't understand what's going on to her,?
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It sounds like a tough situation. You could try telling her how she is making you feel, or ask another friend or family member you are both close with to talk to her about it.
Maybe your aunt is unhappy about something, so perhaps you could do something nice for her - cook her a meal, complement her or tell her that you are grateful that she is supporting you. Try talking to her about things kindly and maybe you can help her with what ever is bothering her.
Most important thing for you is to talk to somebody - a friend, family member or maybe get some counseling. Don't feel like you have to deal with things on your own.
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