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Should I just stop getting involved with this guy 100%?
I met this guy at work who had a girlfriend, but they broke up. He looked like he needed someone to talk to, so I listened to him vent and everything. Around 2 weeks later, he started flirting with me but I had a boyfriend..this guy kept asking me to hang out and, after refusing to a few times, we hung out and had sex. I immediately felt guilty about cheating on my boyfriend and I broke up with him because I knew what I did was wrong. I did have sex with the guy probably about 3 more times, the third time was weird because it was more intimate then just plain sex, and before I left he kissed me which we never did before. Then the sex randomly stopped for like 3 months. And things began to get weird. He sometimes would act like I wasn't even there when I saw him at work, he didn't hit on me as much, didn't talk to me as much and he just got weird towards me? He would tell me other girls he hooked up with and occasionally would ask me if I wanted to have sex again, but he would never text me or hit me up after asking. I was so confused. So, I just moved on from that. I know I may sound like an idiot but I did (still do) want to hook up with him, even though he does tell me about the other girls. It doesn't bother me which I know sounds stupid. But after that 3 months of him just being weird, we had sex again but then it stopped now for 2 months. He's back to the telling me about other girls, not talking to me as much and acting weird again? He still asks about having sex but never follows up on it. My question is, should I just say no from now on? Should I just stop, because, I do enjoy hooking up with him but I am getting so confused when he acts like he's acting? Does he not care about me in any way at all? Please give me some advice :/ thank you.
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If you want something more serious, I would suggest that you avoid him. I know you really like him but it really does not sound like he is looking for a serious relationship, and I think that there is a possibility that he could be using you.
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He sounds like a player and bad news. He's only in it for sex and once he gets that he ignores you and then randomly comes back asking again. You're going to get emotionally crushed if you invest any more time than you have done already.
I doubt he cares about you or any of the other girls to be brutally honest just the sex. I suppose if you knew all he wanted was that and no commitment and you wanted the same maybe..
But bottom line I see this as a bad situation that you need to move on from especially if you have to work in the same office. The fact he's constantly bragging about his conquests to other girls and probably guys in the workplace just shows you how much he doesn't care about women and how he treats them.
Keep your head on straight and get smart to him being bad news. Having had sex with him before on multiple occasions was a bad judgment call and continuing would be worse as he's clearly used you in my opinion and other women. The fact he's talked to you about them is odd as well as to women in office and out, If something doesn't seem right about the guy than trust your gut above any other feeling.
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