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Texting with girls?
Hi im 15 and mostly talk to a group of 3 girls every night on facebook..our conversations are quite short lived becus it will usually be 'wat u doing?' then they ask me and i might ask them something about school..im always the one who keeps the conversations going but am also boring them with the same questions! Does anyone have any advice on conversation.i also really like one of them but i think i am boring her is there any way of flirting without telling her how i feel until i think she feels the same:) all help appreciated
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The best way to be a great conversationalist is to ask lots of questions about the other person. Here's a link to a ton of random questions that you can squeeze into the convo to make it more entertaining :)
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The best way to impress anyone is to let them know you are listening to them. So, if one of the girls once mentioned a sick aunt, ask, "hey, how is your aunt doing?" Also, people don't tend to open up any more than the individual they are dealing with; meaning if you want to learn someone's opinion, you have to give yours first. There are so many interesting things around the world...did you know Martin Luther King Jr.'s first name was actually Michael, but he changed it to Martin? You need to find something that's important to you...say the prevention of cruelty to animals (15 year old girls love that), and learn enough about it to have an intelligent conversation. And don't forget all important rule # 1: Be yourself!
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Keeping a conversation going can be difficult at times. The best thing you can do, especially with the one you have a crush on, is to try to get to know her, assuming you don't know much about her already. Start small, favorite music, movies, tv shows, things like that. Try to find something you two have in common. That can lead to longer, deeper discussions. A quick google search will also show you tons of sites that list questions you can use to get to know someone.
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