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can I still bleeed if my hymen is broken? accidently
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I am not sure if I am a virgin or not? I m not sure if my hymen is broken or not? When I was in gr 10 I iinserted a tempon jus the tip of it den I toook it out coz I was scared I don't remeber bleeding after it but I m not sure if my hymen is broken n I have never had sex can I. Stilll bleeed during the 1st time I have seXx? This hymen thing is very important in my culture so plz I neeed help wat to doo:(?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Actually, your hymen is typically broken before you have sex for the first time. Especially with tampon usage. Hymen is a very thin, weak membrane, and it doesn't represent virginity because it is so easily broken.
Of course you're still a virgin. Being a virgin means you haven't had sex yet. Bleeding the first time has nothing to do with hymen what so ever.
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It's unlikely that you could have broken your hymen with your tentative exploration. You would have noticed some pain even if you don't remember any blood.
One tries not to judge other cultures too harshly, but I find I must say this: If the man you have sex with for the first time is more concerned about looking for physical evidence of your virginity than he is about the fact that you are offering him the gift of being sexually intimate with you for the first time, then he has his priorities messed up. And since a hymen can be broken in dozens of ways besides having sex, it really shouldn't be held up as the standard of virginity. If you haven't had sex yet, you're a virgin; the state of your hymen should be irrelevant.
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There are many ways that a hymen can break, for example from riding a bike or riding a horse etc. Although, some girls do not always bleed when their hymen breaks, so it is hard to know. Everyone's body is different. If you haven't seen any unusual blood outside of the time of your period, then you should be fine.
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