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why wont she forgive me ?


Question Posted Wednesday January 9 2013, 1:03 am

long story .
so in freshmen year i started in this highschoool and i didnt know anybody! except my cousin . me and her were very close .one day i had found out this boy caLled me cute ! nd i told her, the boy who called me cute was her exboyfriend ! :o but they only went out for a day in the eighth grade . she used to like him alot .one of her bestfriends went behind her back and dated this guy secretly for five monthes ! my cousin forgave after along time . soo my cousin didnt want me talking to this guy at all. but he messaged me onfacebook . i probily shouldnt have messaged back . but as time went on i too startted to date him secertly :( so my cousin found out shee go mad at me , didnt talk to me . i only lasted with that guy for almost two months. he was a loser ! finaly aftr soooooooooooooooo long ! she forgave me . we were cool for a minute. then she stop talkn to me i didnt understand . i told one my friends to ask her why and she said my cousin heard a rumor tha i cheated onn that guy ! i didnt cheat ?!, but idont know what to do , ? she wont talk to me .


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Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 4:17 pm:
Wait... Why did you secretly date this guy knowing your cousin wouldn't approve? That's not what you do to those you love and are close to. Can you honestly blame her for being angry and not wanting to talk to you?

As for the rumor, the only way you'll be able to straighten that out is when she decides to start talking to you again. Only then can you explain to her that it simply isn't the truth.

Have no worries, she WILL get over it. Before you know it she will have chilled out about it and be talking to you again in no time.

Next time, don't date guys your friends or cousins are hung up on. Stand in their shoes a minute. It would make you feel pretty shitty if you found out someone you thought you could trust did something like that to you.
Okay?

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