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losing virginity all over again
hi guys....so technically I'm not a virgin I had lost my virginity when I was 14 years old and I am now 17. I've been dating my boyfriend for 10 months and we still haven't had sex because I get really nervous and embarrassed. not to sound awkward or disturbing but he fingers me pretty frequently and plays with my chest all the time. I have him `head` once and that was fine. but hi ow do I build up confidence? and ...how much does it hurt? as I said I was 14 and I don't remember how it felt. and I haven't had sex since than. thank you so much everyone who answers!!!
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Being somewhat older now and with a guy you've dated for nearly a year you should be quite confident as you're much more ready now. There's a good possibility that it won't hurt at all as long as you're not tensed-up through nerves or anxiety and that your chap has spent plenty of time getting you properly aroused. 10 months in you should have a good deal of trust in him and know him very well. Could just be a pleasant sensation of feeling 'full' with any luck. Sort out contraception issues beforehand, condom would be good, then you can 99% lose any unwanted pregnancy fears that could wind up your stress levels and make things a bit tighter than necessary. No end of girls lose their virginity a bit too soon. Curiosity, things getting a bit out of hand (no pun intended!) and so on. And it's often not a great experience for them. Yours obviously wasn't mind-blowing and memorable eh?? Don't worry. You're in a MUCH better and more desirable position now, so try and relax, go with the flow and enjoy it.
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None of us can answer this as each person is different. However I just wanted to correct you on the title...Once you loose your virginity there is no loosing it again.
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Hello.
Well it will not hurt since you arent a virgin no more. It might feel werid at first but then it feels good. Now to built confidence you must be comfty with your body naked. If you arent its ok. But make sure you tell your boyfriend you are nervous ok he will understand :3.hope this helps
Love, Penguin
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