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Should I Have dumped my boyfriend over this?
OK i'm a 13 year old girl who lives in Georgia and i just broke up with my boyfriend who is 16 and lives in Illinois.
He was willing to cheat on me with my best friend. My best friend and I, were asking him questions to see if he wanted to be with me or my best friend. He wants to be with both of us, but my best friend doesn't really like him anymore, but its just the fact that he would be willing to cheat on me with her, which makes me so angry.
I was already really pissed at my best friend's little brother the other day. So my boyfriend was basically adding fuel to the fire, which was making me really mad and i didn't second guess myself. I cussed him out and I was so pissed I didn't have time to calm myself and think straight. I cried my eyes out last night when i broke up with him, and now I AM second guessing myself... I want to get back with him, but i'm so worried he will cheat on me... I've already sent an apology text, and he hasn't answered yet... I'm going to try to get back with him, so my question is:
How can i make sure he won't cheat on me, and how can I make sure we can be together for as long as possible?
Because i really do love him... please help! :'(
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You arr putting to much time and energy into s relationship that is not going to work out.
You are 13, there are going to be many many more relationships.
No matter what if a guy is willing to cheat then he is not good enough to be in a relationship.
Let's look at the facts; you are in Georgia and he is in Illinois. Do you really think he is going to put full effort and time into someone who is a few thousand miles away?
Please dump him and move on. Find someone who you know in person and that likes YOU for who you are.
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You are 13, dating a 16 year old boy, long distance.
Honey - even if he didn't want tobe with your best friend, this relationship was probably not going to work out for very long.
Maybe you did overreact, but that doesn't mean you should still be in a relationship with him. He's insensitive and a bit dumb to be talking that way to his girlfriend. Not a guy who is emotionally wise enough to be in a long distance relationship in a respectful and caring way.
So, even if he never cheated on you, it doesn't mean this relationship is good enough for you. It doesn't sound like it is.
We can love lots of people, but loving someone doesn't mean they are a good match for us, or that they are able to treat us well.
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You are dating a boy THREE years older then you who does not even live in the same city as you??!!!
Okay I over that now let's get back down to it. Does he know that you are so much younger then he is? If so he might try to take advantage of you. It normal to see red and not think very clearly if you are that mad(and you have the right to be.) I think it best to stay broken up. He's willing to cheat on you!! It not like he cheated and now is sorry and wants to get back together. Then is that was the case I would say proceed with caution. But he still willing to cheat on you. With you best friend no less!He need to mature and see he can't have too girl at the same time He is a teenaged playa or (how ever you say it.) I hope you can see that see my point. Just like a woman can come between two best male friend and make them best enemies the same goes for two girls. I sure you don't want a boy (who a little more then obviously no good) too come between you and your bff.All I trying to say is that I see red flags all over this thing.I would stay broken up.
Might not be what you wanted to hear but hope I helped anyways.June
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