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fake/real friennds
I'm 16 and a female half of the time my friends feel fake af but then sometimes they feel like there so real like i feel like how could i ever think they are fake. i even feel like legit my bestfriend. my bestfriend from kindergarden is fake. like we are legit best friends like the weird shit you do at home by yourself we do in front of each other like bro were best friends. and I'm the type of person who would so leave that situation if i can. but i can't. because there the realist anyone will ever get. and its a struggle i don't want to go through this for the rest of high school and wait for college. and everyone already has here groups. like i can't meet new people but no they have there bestfriend like I'm stuck like this. i promise you don't write meet new people if your going to reply to this :/ i feel stuck i don't know what to do. and my love life is terrible i have no one. i don't want to look back at my child hood and remember how sad i was.
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Firstly , sorry for the late reply and do cheer up . Adversity in life is unavoidable and there's always a reason behind everything that is occurring , so please escape yourself from the feeling of not knowing what to do when something unpleasant befalls you . If God brings you to it regardless how painful it is , He'll bring you through it . The thing is , you and I , in fact anyone at all need to realise that not every friend we have is true and recognise who's being the fake one . 'A friend is someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is someone we treasure for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives with beauty, joy and grace.
And makes the world we live in a better and happier place. ' Who actually matters is the one who'll always be there for you when you need a listening and a comforting ear but at the same time , you too need to be a great friend first . Honestly , being independent these days is much more better than being with friends or people who'll leave you alone when you're in the storm , but'll always be there when you shine . It's okay , you will get through this but be patient . Try thinking about what you can do to be a real friend , then apply the thoughts and harvest the flowers of your actions . Another thing , don't put your key to happiness in someone else's pocket and don't assume that you're worthless without your friends , because you're already worthy and unique yourself . I can see that you're struggling to overcome this matter , but it takes courage and strength to endure it . Look , this advice applies to every calamity that's taking place inside of you . Recognise that you have the courage within you to fulfill the purpose of your birth . Summon forth the inner power of your inner courage and live the life of your dreams . Don't be bittered because of friends , or having fake friends around you because very little is needed to make a happy life ; it's all within yourself , in a way of thinking and life is never always about joy and excitement . Also , Meet new people :P and be friendly to everyone . You'll lose nothing at all plus friends may appear from just anywhere at all . The thing is , try strengthening the ties with your current friends by being there , being nicer and so on and see if what you do pays off . Try talking to your best friends more and understand them , and their life . Have fun with them and do avoid judgements . They have their own story to tell too right ? Still , help yourself first and stand up . Beautify yourself more . All the best :)
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