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i feel lonely
okay so im 16 and a female im not looking for love but i want someone in my life like even if the guy is a player i know that sounds bad but I'm actually not an ugly girl not to be cocky. like everyone i know had someone to talk to they always even say oh who should i talk to next. because everyone always wants someone to care for them or talk to them to make them feel good. like i never get that i don;t know what I'm doing wrong like a lot of people know me in school its just i guess know one has interest in talking to me. i feel lonely. i feel sometimes its always going to be like this and if anything i finally marry someone i don't even love because i want to be married. but i don't want to wait for the future what about now i can't wait an longer is boring and lonely and sad and a waste of life. i really want someone. I'm confused. sometimes i feel like why am i in this world. I'm not suicidal of coarse ahha but i feel like nothing goes on in my life besides getting drunk and getting in trouble with my parents. i have okay grades like nothing exciting is in my life i feel like i do nothing in this world and mean nothing in this world I'm just someones friend. like no one important and it hurts. i don't know whats wrong with me like i just want someone who cares for me. and i don't know what to do anymore and i hate when people say someone one will come. like no what about now i want my life to mean something now in my child hood.
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I understand what you're going through and i know how hard, difficult and happiness-corroding it is but don't worry, you're never alone and to every problem, there's always a solution. If you have time, find a great place for you to relax and take a deep, deep breath and experience the world for a moment. Eliminate the stress or resentment you're enduring and try figuring out the core of the problem. The thing is, you can create your own happiness but you also can create your own sadness and the feeling of hurt inside your fragile heart. You're still 16 and there're still chances to get friends out there but have you ever realized that everyone is longing for one true friend too ? Yes, you might witness some of the people around you with at least a dozen contacts in their phone but that doesn't mean that they have the one friend they've always been wanting. Every person has a story to tell. A listening, comforting and fulfilling friend is hard to find these days but you can always get one and sometimes, to get one requires you being the great friend first. Have you tried being there for your friends and listen to whatever they've to say ? Comfort them and be the eraser to their tears. They'll remember you, believe me although you might not expect it. It takes time for this so please, please be patient and in the meantime, be friendly to everyone and be good in communicating. Sooner or later, one of your friends or the people surrounding you'll become closer .. And closer to you. Don't be sad now, there's still more to life ! Make a bucketlist and try achieving your goals one by one. Remember, even one day of your life cannot be let go if nothing special has been accomplished so appreciate every moment, even now. You are the key to the solution, and you will heal but it only takes you, and YOU to beautify your life because you're already beautiful ! Like i said, be patient and be patient. Try developing more skills and make yourself more unique compared to others. Acquire more abilities to complete yourself but don't forget your spiritual needs. Be motivated always ! Think from the positive side, and don't cry. If you search at the right place, you'll get the right person. Don't just sit and wait, work yourself towards it. If you need anything else, i'd be glad to assist you as a friend anytime :) Be motivated and love yourself too.
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