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I feel like my parents don't like me anymore... Help
I am twelve years old in January and have a hard life (thank you government.) I try hard to please my parents and do what they ask, make straight A's, never get sick, never call home, never make noise, ect. My dad wastes himself, then gets up and fights with my mom. He throws trash on the ground then yells in my and moms faces to pic it up. He constantly is calling me stupid, a pig, and saying I need to 'pull my head out of my ass' and cusses at me. He acts like he hates me. Last year he and my mom fought and he was beating her and after that he called her a bitch and I said no shes not. He then shoved me in his room and got in my face yelling at me. I still have nightmares and ball my eyes out at that and everything else. He beats my mom so much she has bruises and rashes were he hurts her. She makes a big yummy dinner and puts ketchup on his plate. He gets in her face and calls her a whore, pig, bitch, dumb ass. Now my mom. She acts like she controls me in every way. I'm not allowed to wear my regular shirts, I have to wear crazy outfits and I have no controll over what I do. She tells me 'you don't do shit, so do the dishes, and clean the kitchen, and then you can do laundry' she is always putting me down, telling me I don't do anything, I don't make good grades, I am stupid. She only talks to me after she and dad fight, which is a lot. I am afraid of my dad and afraid that they won't accept the real me. I don't like most country or rock, or screemo music. I hate the cowboys and rangers, and want to tell them bad. But I am 100 percent positive that they will yell at me. How do I tell them? PLEASE HELP, IM DESPERATE!
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You are to young to do anything about this on your own. You need the help if a trusted adult. I would suggest you speak with a teacher you trust or your school principal and ask for their help. One you tell them as you have told us there are procedures in place for them to follow to keep you safe.
I realize schools are closed for the holidays. If you feel you are in danger you can go to any fire station or police station which are safe havens for children. You tell them what you told us and they will get you help.
You can always call 911 for help as well. Even if mom and dad are home the police will not go away without talking to you and making sure you are safe. If you tell them about dad hitting mom they will make sure that both you and mom are safe.
Should dad start beating mom over the holidays get to a phone and dial 911. IF the call taker hears screaming and hitting this will be recorded and the responding officer(s) will be advised. Dad will not be able to cancel the call.
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