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why cant i give him up?
Hi,I'm Jazz 14/f.I'm very confused as of right now.
There's this guy named Andrew.He's two years older than me,and also my brother's best friend's.Every since I first met him last year,I've had a crush on him.I would try to go where I knew he would be.
But now,it's different since we all go to the same school.
But my two bestfriend's know I had a crush on him.
But I noticed that he was always finding reasons to talk to me,or help me.But i didn't think anythimng of it,I just thought he was being nice since I was his bestfriend's little sister.
So two months ago,the crush I had on him went away.I just viewed him as a friend.
But this month,he told my bestfriend's he likes me,so they told me,and the crush came back that i had on him.
He asked me out,and i told him i would give him an answer later,and he agreed with that.
He writes me letters every other day now,telling me how beautiful and sweet i am.
He even told me he was always trying to talk to me or help me because he liked me since we first met.
He gets nervous when he's around me,and when I hug him,he get's red and blushes.
He says he gets butterflies when I'm around,and my friends keep telling me to go out with him.
But I feel bad,because he's writing me these nice letters telling me how beautiful and perfect I am,but when I write back all I can honestly say is he's sweet and nice,because I don't love him like he loves me.I don't love him at all.
He told me to do what makes me happy.I told him that dating him isn't gonna make me happy,and neither is not dating him.So i just told him now.
But the next two days i thought it over,and decided to date him.but when we went to school monday,he didn't talk to me,he avoided me,and the next day also.I felt bad.He finally told me he started dating his bff monday,because i was taking to long.he apologized and asked if i was ok.i lied and said yes,and he hugged me,and i had to leave so i wouldnt cry.im trying to foget about him but its not working.I put the letters in his locker,but he left them there refusing to take them back.
Any help right about now would do me good.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Honestly, he didn't truly like you if he found a new girlfriend that fast. If he really wanted you, he would have waited for you.
He might be a good guy but he seems like he doesn't really know what he wants or he's just a guy who will take any girl who seems interested.
There are plenty of guys out there who will be interested in you, just wait for the right one. So that doesn't mean you have to lose him as a friend but if you still like him, wait for the feelings to go away before you decide to be his friend again. It doesn't mean you have to be mean or rude to him, you can say hi and be nice but wait till you get over him.
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Well I also like this guy and I also wasn't shure of anything at first like you. I just want to say you shouldn't give up on him giving up is not the best thing to do he probably has feelings for you still because you can't just stop loving someone I think you should tell him how you feel but don't lie and don't be rude because the guy I like was rude to me and the next time he saw he was nice and said hi but I just skeefed him to be spitefull and now I really regret it. You can't get advice on how to not like someone so maybe just try get him back if it doesn't work maybe try getting to know other guys and maybe you fall for them just don't try to hard just be yourself and let him know exactly what you feel for him
Hope I helped
Michaela x
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