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Friendship over
Rahzie I recently added.more inf
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Hello,
I'm pretty certain you meant this question:
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Please let me know if I'm wrong.
I did see the additional information, but I choose not to change my advice. Your new information doesn't change my advice in any drastic way.
You see, it doesn't matter if Ann is selfish, or loaded, or even if she in a bad marriage. That doesn't change what you did or make it okay. We are responsible for our own behavoir regardless of the situations of others.
You were still wrong to punish her and push her when she said no to your request for money. You did not act like a good or respectful friend. You were not sweet or demure in your questions here on this site, and it's very, very unkind of you to call Ann nasty names like superficial and selfish, even just here on the internet.
If you are worried for Ann because you think she is a controlling or abusive relationship, offer her sympathy and a person to talk to if she wants too.
But if she wants you out of her life, then pay her back and leave her alone.
And don't bully anyone, no matter how bad your luck has been, or how loaded or selfish they are. Don't bully or punish anyone when they tell you they can't loan you money. That's never an okay thing to do.
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