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jealous of best friend
imk Nikki im a 11 yeear old girl. my best friend is hanging out with a girl im not that close too. i mean ive been friends with her since 2nd grade. but recently we drifted and havent hung for a while. now she just blows me off and never wants to hang out. and whenever her and someone else hang out she always video chats me and makes me jealous. i dont understand. are we true friends?
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I'm 15 & I have been in your situation, MANY TIMES. & mostly it was her. You guys are still young, eventually you'll be close again. Just act like you don't care, rub it in her face that you have friend too!
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Ok,
babe, I've been here almost a million times ! my question to you Nikki is:
•Does she stand for you
•Does she act different around her new friend
•Do you feel alone
•Is she always there for you;
it's not true friend ship if she try's to make you jelly (jealous)
and glue this on your head and remember it !
***IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW LONG YOU HAVE KNOWN EATHOTHER, IT MATTERS WHO WAS WITH YOU THE LONGEST***
and trust me, you will get used to it and find friends that you deserve other then ditchhikers !! ;3
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Hey there,
I understand how you must be feeling. We have all experienced something like this at some stage or another. Unfortunately sweetie it's a part of life and growing up.
People Change, I know it's not nice and it hurts, but it happens.
It may happen to you a few times over the course of your life but the truly great friends who are worth holding on to, won't treat you like a hot topic one day.. then yesterdays news the next.
I hate to say it but this girl only has her own interests at heart. She is immature and is taken up with the idea of having new friends. Sure, it's okay for you guys to have separate friends but blowing you off and making you jealous? what does that say about her? you're better than that. Don't let yourself be treated that way. You seem like a very mature girl for your age. Unfortunately for some girls it takes a while for them to mature and respect friendships. Move on. You'll find friends who are worthy of your friendship and who will stick with you through thick and thin. You're only eleven you have years ahead of you to form life long bonds and trust me you will! don't let this one silly girl get you down. Smile and be happy :)
Much <3
Jess 19/f
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In my opinion I think that a true friend treats all their friends as equally important instead of putting one over the other.
Now you said that you guys drifted apart and that she is always blowing you off for someone else. I don't know if this is the answer you want or not but she doesn't sound like she is being a good friend to you. If you have tried to talk to her about how you feel and she just ignored you, then maybe you and her shouldn't be friends anymore. YOU'RE 11 YEARS OLD. You'll find more friends who are nice to you and respect you.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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