Question Posted Wednesday November 14 2012, 1:11 am
So my FWB has been texting me everyday, wants to hang out all the time, invites me out with his friends (even when it doesn't involve drinking or partying), uses pda when we're together, wants me to sleepover, remembers things I say (even if they're insignificant), and his friends call me his baby girl.... I'm not quite sure if we are fwb or talking. Also I'm pretty sure he's not talking to any other girls because it seems like he's always asking me to hang out even before he makes plans. When we're together he does boyfriend-like things like hold my hand, put his arm around me, etc. Also when we meet up it's not always sexual. Sometimes we just cuddle and hang out. Is there a sign of something more or is this how all fwb situations work? Please don't tell me that fwb is slutty or bad or that I shouldn't be doing this, I just need an honest opinion. Thanks :)
All relationships are unique, and FWBs are a kind of a relationship.
So ask him if you are curious or confused. But before you ask him, you might ask yourself if you want something more from this relationship, or even something less.
russianspy1234 answered Wednesday November 14 2012, 9:06 am: Friends with benefits consists of both "friends" and "benefits." The things you mention could certainly fit under the "friends" label, though it does seem to be going over the top a bit. You probably want to have a discussion with him so no one gets hurt. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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