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out of my mind after miscarriage
Im 26 year woman from India. i faced a miscarriage before 7 month. i was continue sly trying to be back in a normal life but,everything is getting worst. Now i always think to either kill myself or my hubby as I'm not able to forget his and his parents bad behavior with me during my pregnancy. But as both the things are not possible for me, so just getting mad day by day. Its very easy for people to say "move on" but its not that much easy for me.
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I am so sorry for your loss, nothing hurts a mother more then loosing her child. Especially when there is so much pressure from your family, and your husband to simply forget, and "move on". You can never forget and move on, it's impossible. But you will heal, through lots of faith, and love. Healing does not mean forgetting though.
Coming from a background where my mother also felt she could not leave my father, that her situation was impossible, and my father's family was also very tough on her, I know how hard this all can be. If you choose to stay, I would suggest creating an outlet for yourself. Maybe you can write, paint, knit, cook do anything you truly love to bring you a sense of happiness. Know that nothing is forever, and what you're going through right now will not last forever. The only thing permanent, is change. You have so much more power then you think you do, and more importantly you must make a decision that is best for you. If you are slowly slipping into a depression, then you need go to someone you can love and trust, and talk about these feelings. If you feel you need to seek professional help, then do not be ashamed. Your strength is already showing, because you are strong enough to talk about your feelings.
A lot of your feelings are not only caused by your environment, but also hormones. Because you were pregnant, your body still has prepared for that, and because you have lost the baby, again your body is doing what it does naturally and flooding you with hormones. Some women who have lost their children, suffer postpartum depression. You could be going through that as well. Give your body and your mind time to heal. It may be a challenge, but I believe, and have faith that you can do this, you have strength and power, and are a strong woman, so you can fight for your happiness.
If you want to go on the path, of fighting against all odds, and try to divorce your husband know that it will be a hard decision to make, and bear with. It will be a challenge, but know that nothing can stand in the way from you and your happiness, and anyone who tells you different is out of their minds. I send you lots of happy thoughts, and positive energy, and again please stay strong. I am very sorry, and hope this advice helped, even if it was only a little bit :)
Best Wishes & नमस्ते!
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