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I was so tired, I need advice please... I want a marriage counselling but he always refuse.
What am I goin to do, I was getting tired of all the arguments because of my Step-Son. My relationship to my husband is getting worst everytime we had fight and the reason is because of his son. We have a baby, and my step son is living with us and he was raised by my husband since 3yrs old but they said their relationship is not perfect for 10yrs. I really hard time in adjusting having a new baby, being far apart with my family, with my husband and with his ADHD son. My husband throwing me foul and abusive words everytime we're having a fight and it was all because of his son. His son is so disrespectful and rude, inconsiderate and not thankful but he knows to manipulate his dad and turns like I was the bad one and he was the innocent. My husband is against me and choosing his son than to me and our baby. He always wants us to leave when he was mad and he's cursing and throwing bad words to me even in front of our 14months baby. I want a marriage counselling but he always refuse. I was the 3rd wife and he was my first. He is not the man and I fell in love with, not even in my imagination... :"(
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treat this son good and let him consider you as a mother do with him wt he like .like if he like riding bike go with him in bike trip if like cookies make to him cookies buy him ps3 anything make the son loves you as a mother then if your realionship is good with your son your husband might feel comfortable with you
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If he isn't willing to work it out and fight for your marriage... FUCK HIM. I know that sounds probably rude but it's true. You are a mother and you have to look out for the best interest of your child, and many people will say staying in that marriage is the best interest but it's not because he already is picking his other son over the baby and if he is treating you foul and abusive over the son imagine what he will do to the baby. Probably even the reason why the son is such a jackass is because his dad is, he raised him right? So give him a choice he can try to work it out, and go to marriage counseling or you can leave his ass and let him spend all the time he wants with his won and he can wait for a fourth wife.
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