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People call me a slut. How do I get them to stop idk if they're right.
So this past year has been kinda hard.. Seventh grade I got made fun of a lot and then in the summer I went out with one of the kids that made fun of me and I just didn't really know it then.. And then I went to the movie in the park with him and we kinda made out.. But we didn't go any further!! I would never do that kind of stuff.. Then he told me if he told his ex that lives in Idaho he would dump me and right when he said that his ex texted me and was like how's u and so and so and I was like good we hung out yesterday but I never told her we never made out.. She told him and he dumped me then when I got back to school eighth grade they started making fun of me for my looks again and so I went out with one of his friends and it was on and off and I do admit to going back and fourth from him to this other kid and then to another kid and then back about three times now the whole school calls me a slut. But I'm a virgin.. How do I get them to stop??
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You know , in this life , it's hard to change people especially their words . Maybe you need to stop going back and forth from a guy to another . I know you don't have sinful intentions , but you need to prevent wild accusations . People will always judge you , sometimes they don't realise that all men are equal . Everyone has a story so none of us have the right to judge anyone , to be honest . Don't worry ! If you're innocent and you know that you are , then there's nothing to worry about . Just strengthen your dignity and look up to the world . They don't know you , but you know yourself right ? If the people around you keeps on saying you're a slut , then prove to them you're not ! Plus you're a virgin which means you're very special . Be strong and be hard and again , do remember to take care of your dignity very well . I know I'm not perfect but to be frank , it takes plenty of time to build a reputation but it only takes a second to destroy it . That's why you just need to be yourself and just be kind to everyone . What goes around comes around :)
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Just keep your head held high. Don't give them the satisfaction that its getting to you. And if you don't believe you're a slut, then you're not a slut. simple as that.
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