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Would a guy try to impress a girl he JUST saw as a friend
or is it always something more?
like, his car was a bit messy, and he had to clean the seat before i sat down, and another guy friend was with us but he didn't care about him. and when we were going to his room he said i should wait cause he was embarrassed about his room being messy, so he was gonna clean it up a bit, even though I said I didn't mind. and then when my other guy friend left and it was just us he seemed to really be paying attention to what I was saying, and tried to impress me I think, through my interests? like he said he listened to some band I love, the day before. i don't know.. when we're with our other friends in public he seems more distant. i mean he jokes with me but when it was just us I felt like I had peeled the layers and was just seeing the true him, and even though I was a bit nervous cause I like him, I felt easy just saying a lot on my mind, cause we're still getting to know each other. I may have talked too much, but I was afraid of an awkward silence.. haha next time I'll try not to do that as much. but he just makes me nervous cause I rarely connect with other people like that. we have a lot of weird things in common. and what else.. well, i was wearing a dress and a couple times I'd catch him staring at my legs and feet (I was wearing wedge heels). he implied that I was dressed fancy but to me it was just casual lol. but in all honesty I do like dressing up a bit when I know I'm going to see him..
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One thing I can recommend is to just relax and not worry about this. Let your relationship unfold and enjoy the journey. He wants you to like him as much as you want him to like you.
He's actually shy except when you are alone and doesn't want his friends to pick up on liking you yet because he doesn't know what he has yet with you.
I think what you should do is tell him that it's all new and you're obsessed with not making mistakes, not talking too much etc. etc. and that it's okay to acknowledge you with his friends. More or less spell out you want to be with him and not to be distant in public. Tell him if he wants a relationship that you do too. After that it all gets easier.
And yes, guys don't get embarrassed about anything such as their room or try to impress any girl that they don't like. He really has a thing for you but it may be hard for him to tell you. Make it easy. Talk openly about it to him.
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No. Guys don't take the time to impress girls they don't like.
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