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i just dont think i can handle this..
im so afraid to talk to my ex again, he ended it 3months ago after nearly a year and we didnt really end on good terms..
I just wish he knew what i feel for him, i ran back to him like 3 times and he rejected me he said that the best thing was for us to forget eachother even though its not easy.
I don't even know if i should? maybe its a bad idea, i dont want to humiliate myself again..
also i feel that i want to start dating but i dont know if im actually ready.
by the way im 18/female
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It is not worth it.
youre still so young and you have your whole entire life ahead of you.. which includes the TONS of guys out there. hes not the only guy on the planet, and hes not the only guy you will ever like again, i promise you that, but you have to give yourself a chance to find someone else.
If hes saying that its best you both just stay away from eachother, than hes saying it for a reason. He doesnt want to be with you.. and thats not to say in the future at some point, you both wont cross paths again and reignite the flame you once had, but you cant hold your breath for that "maybe" moment either.
I know this isnt what you want to hear, but he isnt waiting around for you, and hes not coming back to you over and over again. hes also not trying to contact you, and he keeps, as you say, rejecting you.. than hes making himself very clear to you.. his feelings are no longer there. he even told you straight up that you need to forget him and that he needs to forget about you. and that doesnt mean you wont ever corss his mind, he cant just erase you, but he doesnt want to be with you.
you deserve to find someone who WANTS to be with you and makes a valiant effort to do so. dont keep going back to him, push yourself farther and farther away. talk to other guys. occupy your time with friends and family.. have fun. like i said, youre young and you will find someone else. i know right now you dont think youre ready, but give it time, and patience.. you will be ready in no time.
break the pattern, try for someone new and youll be much happier :) i promise, trust me. xxo.
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Hey girl, I have been in your shoes and I know how hard it is to give him up but my very best advice is to honestly just try your best to forget him! If he still can't see how amazing you are than he doesn't deserve you! Don't keep running back to him it will just make him feel like he has all the power and make you feel powerless when he rejects you. he won't change his mind if he hasn't thus far so you need to forget him! Don't try to jump into another relationship too fast though, you don't want to get hurt. I hope I helped, stay strong!
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