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Problem Cumming: It takes 2 to 3 hours for me to cum. (I am a guy)
Can someone please help me. When I am having sex it is wonderful and I feel great, but the only problem is that i takes me up to two to three hours to cum and then sometimes I don't at all. It doesn't worry me but my girl really loves my cum and wants more. Is there any way I can cum faster?? - Thanks in advance
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if you masterbate a lot than I would say stop masterbating because that is adding to the problem. I think the other persons answer is really good, all of those things could be causing this. I don't know any specific things to make you cum faster I'm guessing you don't stop for the entire 2-3 hours? If you do, try not to. If you are really concerned about this than you should go to a doctor. I know that's awkward but I bet they could give you good tips and/or prescribe you something. I don't know if anything is actually 'wrong' with you, but I would go anyways.
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There is a great deal more information needed before I could even to venture to answer this question. Information as to:
How old are you?
Are you wearing a condom?
If so what type of condom?
Do you cum faster when you masturbate?
Do you masturbate often?
Are you circumcised?
Do you smoke?
Do you drink?
Are you taking any type of medication or drugs?
I know these are very personal questions. The answers to them may point to the reason why you are having trouble. Then there is the big question of the problem being psychological; that being the fear of getting your girlfriend pregnant. This has caused this problem for more than a few males.
Most importantly is; if you are over 14 you can get medical help for this without having to tell your parents. A federal law known as HIPPA grants young people 14 and older medical confidentiality for any problems related to their reproductive system. What you are writing about qualifies.
Under this law you may make your own doctors appointment. Speak with and be treated by a doctor in the strictest of confidence. Your doctor cannot tell anyone and this includes your parents what you are being seen and or treated for without your written consent.
If mom or dad were to accompany you to the doctors office they would be asked to remain in the waiting room while you are examined and treated. No court can order the doctor to break confidentiality. There is only one exception and that is any life threatening condition that requires parental permission to treat. In most instances this would mean you were in a condition were by law you are unable to give informed consent.
I would suggest you start with your family doctor who will first examine you to see if there is any organic reason for this. Smoking, drug abuse and drinking and certain prescription medications are major factors in the problem you write about. If none of these are present and there is no other reason you family doctor can find he/she should refer you to a Urologist for examination and treatment.
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