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How do i let go?
How do you let go of your past? It's been 3 months we ended , after a year relationship, i thought he'll come back to me or even chase me but he never.. and its so hard to know what hes feeling cause he would never show his emotions or feelings.
i dont know how to move cause i try say to mysedlf eventually il do it.. but i dunna...
i love him and i think i always will
best thing about it is im his first love..
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Part of the thing that makes moving on from a relationship that just went bust is the sense of failure. But the truth is that every relationship is a learning experience because everybody is different.
Thus, one way to finally move in is, "well, what did I learn from this relationship, what could I have done better, what should I have demanded from him that would have made it better for me and then apply what you learned to your next relationship.
Also, there are the factors that finding a new partner is a huge pain in the butt and that people often become afraid nobody else will love them. Well, the truth is that if one person likes you, there are probably dozens of others who will, too. So you have to put yourself out there, especially since the more people you interact with the better at the whole socialization game you become because you learn more about other people's potential behaviors.
So see the break up as an opportunity. You're now free to do some exploring and stretch out.
Finally, just know that all relationships have expiration dates. Sometimes it's six weeks, sometimes it's 60 years (and with a whole continuum of in between that or even more). It just depends on the chemistry of the people in the relationship. And the relationship you were in, well, it's use by date came due. Accept it as one of those things and rock on to another situation.
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moving on at first is hard ....later on many ppl find themselfs saying ``what a waste of time `` ! youu shud keep yourself busy and try to stay away from him .....get to know other guys ^.^ cuz remember ``why give your ex a second chance when theres many waiting for their first !
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I've been there and i can still feel the pain till today so yeah don't worry you're not alone . Look , the thing is that no matter how painful it is , no matter how excruciating it is , you will get through . Moving on is the best option and it takes time , a lot of time . Only God knows . Now , think for the best of yourself first , not him or how is he feeling or so on . Nah , those things don't matter now because this is the time for you to be independent ! To be able to stand on your own although the pain still exists . Tell yourself to be strong , you can do this or just be closer to God . You'll feel more relaxed and full of pleasure . Consume your time doing the things you 100% (good deeds only haha) love ! Appreciate yourself first . In the end , your true love will find you , i promise you that :) Now , be yourself . Forget pointless matters and feelings .
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