Continuation of last question! Bicurious and confused when Im horny
Question Posted Thursday October 11 2012, 7:19 pm
Hi so as I said before I'm very striaght and would only date girls and stuff! But when I'm really horny i get bicurious and horny because of my age, (16) so going into locker room showers... I only want serious answers because im young and striaght and a horny teenager and need on serious advice. Thank you. So if I was in a locker room shower and got hard and another guy was alone with me in the showers and he offered to "do things" what should I say? Would it be worth trying something's out or would I regret it later? I would probably say no but I just want some others serious avice and opinions. Because I know I'm striaght and wanna stay like tht and I know of I expierament and don't like it I'm still striaght and just bicurious
rainhorse68 answered Friday October 12 2012, 2:02 pm: Hello. I answered your previous question, and I hoped it was a serious reply! I didn't assume it would straighten everything out in one hit. Human emotions are much too complex for it to be that easy. You seem convinced that you're 'straight' and want to date girls. And you seem to be in that time of flux where you're basically tuned-in to male company but 'feeling horny' and these feelings are not always very discrminating in their aim. I would really advise not entering into anything sexual with other males then, at this rather turbulent time in your life. Now gay males often say they're 'born gay' and they 'always knew'. I can't say whether that's always so or not. But I do know that the 'self-fulfilling prophesy' is very real. By indulging in gay/bisexual activity you could easily make concrete something that is at the moment far from certain. In simple terms, it would not be difficult to 'convince yourself' you are and find yourself entailed in that lifestyle. There's an old saying that you 'can't fool yourself.' In fact we can, and very often do with complete conviction. At the risk of repeating myself, this is precisely why most cultures have higher ages of consent for same-sex relationships. So that we do not make 'lifestyle' choices based on what could only be a phase in many cases. [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
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