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Gay Sex at 13
Yes, I'm gay and have a boyfriend. His name is Myles. we are both 13 and this summer somtimes we would have sex inthe late night. I don't have any problems but i was wondering if it was okeay. weve been doing this for some time now. Is it okeay please anserw.
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I'm going to start by saying you may not like my answer either.
First and foremost it is okay to be gay, IF THAT IS TRULY WHAT YOU ARE. Fact is at 13 I don't believe you have really explored your sexuality. At your age sexual exploration between two people of the same sex is quite normal. It is for this reason that I warn against labeling your sexuality at this time.
Another reason for not labeling your sexuality at this time is not only could your sexuality change in the future. Your classmates may not be so accepting of your being gay. For you or your BF to label yourself at this time could needlessly expose you to gay bashing both at school and out of school.
As I said it is quite normal for young teenagers such as you to experiment sexually with people of the same sex. Both girls and boys have such relationships in their early stages of sexual exploration. Their are a myriad of reasons for this experimentation none of which are relevant to your question. All you need to know is this is normal for someone your age.
For now though I would recommend you not label yourself, for your own safety and the fact that this just may be as I believe; sexual experimentation. Leave yourself some room to venture and explore other sexual experiences. When you are older, living in an adult world will be the time to actually put a label on your sexuality.
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I'm going to start by saying you may not like my answer, but I'm going to be honest nonetheless.
I will say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay. My biggest concern is that you do seem quite young to be having sex. I know things are changing now, and people seem to be having sex at younger ages, but if you have to seek validation from other people on whether or not it's okay to have sex with your boyfriend, then you're probably not ready to be having sex. When you are ready, you won't feel the need to worry about how others feel about it.
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