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im being accused for nothing
i was texting my friend and she started talking about how annoying her family was then she said she was gonna run away and i tried and tried to talk her out of it but she just yelled at me and told me i didnt know her and i told her i was only trying to help and things got out of control so i told her mom and now shes blaming everything on me what should i do?
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You Should show her mom the message's and tell her it's not your fault then just leave her alone...................
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Let me put this in another prospective. You have already done the right thing. I for one am proud of you for doing what was right to protect your friend. You may have just saved her life.
She may hate you now but at least she is alive and protected from what life would be like alone on the streets. At some point when whatever problems have caused her to think her only answer was to run away, are settled, she will come around and thank you for being her friend and doing the right thing. Until then there is not much you can do but remain her friend from a far to make sure she does not do anything that might harm herself.
You did the right thing, the mature thing and as I said I am very proud of you for doing that. Many others would have kept her secret and then hated themselves if she was hurt or worse. So just continue to be their for her if she needs you. One day she will realize you are her BFF.
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Dear "im being accused for nothing" It sounds to me like you were trying to protect your friend. She would've done the same if the tables were turned. She's probably just going thru a really tough time and can't think logically just now. Her emotions drive her thought process. When she gets back to herself she'll come around. Just don't give up on her and be there for her and stay in touch with her as much as you can and tell her that you were only trying to protect her and meant her no ill will. You sound like a very caring friend and intellegent person to speak to this girls mom and not let anything bad happen to her.
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