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Crush: I like this guy and I haven't talked to him before because I'm too scared.
So I like this guy and I haven't talked to him before because I'm too scared. He gives me the states sometimes and when ever I'm around he becomes really quiet. He is actually really talkative normally. Once he turned around on his bike and stared at me.i don't know if he likes me but I really like him. There is this other girl who likes him and they used to date and he talks to her sometimes. He also never makes eye contact with me. I think he knows I like him but I don't know if he likes me. I want him to ask me out! Ahhh what should I do?
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Now, all my life I've known girls and far older women holding on to the idea that they have bags of self-doubts and insecurities when a new relationship possibilty presents itself, and that guys on the other hand have none whatsoever. Wrong...very wrong...we're FULL of them! But talking about them to our mates the way girls do?NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS. It's not very 'manly' to talk about feelings at all, y'know!! Really...we do. Will she like me? Will she say yes when I ask her...or fall about laughing? Am I good looking enough? Will she be horribly dissapointed after a day or two? I bet she gets asked out all the time by guys. We ask ourselves stuff like this, beat ourselves up with it. And many a golden opportunity is missed. You find that out much later, sadly. So. Use your feminine savvy and try and make it easy for him to ask you out. Be around where you know he'll be. Looking your best of course. Try and find some common subject. You mentioned a bike? Look up some stuff on bikes on the net, ask him if it's a two-stroke thingy or a double-camshaft doodah or something. Basically, ask him something he knows about and can look cool answering...we like that! Try 'leading questions'. Something he can only answer with a proper sentence, not just yes/no/grunt. The 'I think he knows I like him' bit's familiar. Does he? HOW??? Getting the picture? Sounds to me like you've got him on the hook already. Now just reel him in!
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