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15/f helpppp seriously dont know about birth control or anxiety pill?!
f/almost 15. i have gone through sooo much in my life and i have just recently ended a horrible mentally draining and abusive relationship with my father a narcisssist. in my parents divorce my older brother took sides with my dad and my older sister took sides with my mom everyone was seperated accept for me and my two other brothers. it was such a strain on me.. but that wasnt enought for my dad he got me involoved in enverything. evreything i didnt need to be stressed out about i was. i was the most popular, outgoing, hilarious, outspoken girl in my grade. when this happend when i was in 6th grade all my middle school years were ruined by my dad but i ddint see it then becSUE HE was so manipulative. now my family is not sperate anymore they made up but im still dealing with problems im releived i let go of my dad but im still dealing with depression. it feels like i will never recover. everyday is a sad day and every second im miserable. BUT first with my period it is very bad with med-heavy flow with HORRIBLE mood swings and HORRIBLEEE cramps in my thighs that feels like im getting stabbed repeatedly all the time. i talked to my mom and therapist and said that if it affects you that much you should consider going on the pill. and im like great ok that gives me some relief at least i can try something. but then i ask my mom because my older sister is getting on it and she doesnt wnat to hear it, beacuse right now im only 14 but in 3 monthes ill be 15. its not like im fucking 11 and im like yeahh i think i should go on the pill..like no?! my mom and everyone knows i have a high pain tolerance so when i complain about an ache or pain ir really DOES hurt. and my mom doesnt take it seriously, and its just really aggravating. i also have bad anxiety stemmed from depression that once again i got from my father....and i have never gone on any medication at all so im hesitant to try anything. becasue my dad pulled me away from my normal everyday kid life and wanted to make me as miserable as he is i just neglected evreyone else included my friends. i feel like i have no one. i dont hangout ith anyone becasue im so stressed out. my anxiety is really bad. i also talked to my nurse at school about it and my therapist and they said just to calm you down but make you happier too you should get an anti-anxiety pill. My nurse suggested first taking the pill because its everyday and it may even treat my anxiety as it is to treat the mood swings on my period. the reason i think i have anxiety is becasue i mean i have never been diagnosed for anything but im pretty sure its obvious i have depression and im sufering from anxiety becasue i get it everyday. they also said get it at the OBGYN not the peditrican. but i also told them that my neglecting dad doesnt pay shit and is not paying health insirance. i have.no.idea.what.to.do. my dad last time i talked to him said the new job he got he got laid off from and he doesnt pay health insurance even though I NEED THIS at least to check it out...but he doesnt care. he, becasue i have brothers int her 30's, my dad is like almost 63 and i remember him one time saying he wanted to retire meanwhile my mom is broke and only getting little unemployment. my nurse said and my therapist go to the OBGYN for the birth control, not the pedtrician since they are specialists in your period and stuff, but i dont know how this is going to get paid for and im starting to wonder if its even possible. thankssss
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Ok, there is NOTHING wrong with taking either of those pills. I have anxiety and depression and am on an anxiety pill called celexa and it helps me SO much. i've heard of girls going on birth control at the age of 11, as long as it is to help with your period it is perfectly fine, DON'T feel bad about wanting either of those.
As for payment, maybe for birth control you could look into planned parenthood, i know that sounds scary they may be able to help. As for the anxiety, if your dad can afford it he should be trying to help you.
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