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I worry to much?


Question Posted Monday October 1 2012, 6:47 am

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Hey guys Im in high school went through a lot of depression/confusions but that was back in middle school and elementary. I went through a lot with making friends and family issues that always got me to the point to having anger issues and even bad adititude. Now I am free from the old worries, guess I could say my life is going well I mean I got a bf which cares a lot but I forgot to mention that ever sense I was little it was always about me until my bro and sis come I learned i wasn't alone although I sorta was alone cause I was the oldest an they were young I basically learned on my own how life was. Well like I said I was so used to doing everything on my own I have this problem I I worry to much like right now don't even know if I should break up with my bf hes really nice an I love him I mean me and him went through the same childhood with depression an all but hes too good for me. What mean is that hes too nice. Yea you probably think is stupid but hes
Everything to me but I feel it shouldn't feel like I have to choose between him an friends. I'm not breaking up with him because I promised myself I wouldn't. I just hate how akward Of a person I am an how my bf is the same way he worries I worry hes like a reflection oh me in guy form.

Thanks for reading(: any advice always helps!


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Additional info, added Monday October 1 2012, 6:52 am:
I was just expressing my feeling at the time .

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lvr answered Monday October 1 2012, 4:30 pm:
Dear "I wory too much" Your question is a little vague. I'm not sure what you're asking but I assure you no one is too good for you, he may not be right for you or enjoy the same things as you, he may be a little clingy and it gets on your nerves and you don't know how to tell him so because you don't want to hurt his feelings but he's definately not too good for you.
Now, about worrying, you're at an age where everything seems like a life crisis. Later you'll be able to look back on these days and you'll ask yourself "Why didn't I just lighten up and enjoy life a little bit before I had all this responsibility?" Don't get too bogged down with life, let your hair down, be carefree and happy-go-lucky. Enjoy your friends and if your man is holding you back, cut him loose, not because he's too good for you, just because you need to have fun, you've dealt with enough in your life with the depression at a very young age and then the adjustment of not being an only child when you were already settled into being the center of everyones world, so lighten up.

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