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Is he shy or just doesnt like me?


Question Posted Wednesday September 26 2012, 2:12 pm

there is this guy I met and I thought he liked me because he would stare at me all the time and hang around me alot and it always felt awkward because he would hardly talk just say hi thats it so I thought I would start small talk with him to get a conversation going but he just give 1 or 2 word answers but he has a big smile on face though when i talk to him im so confused does he like me is shy or just being nice to me when i talk to him?

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday September 26 2012, 10:42 pm:
Tell him the truth. Let him know you would like to get to know him better. Tell him "I don't know if you're shy, like me or what and I'm confused. I've tried talking with you but need more than a two word answer from you..."

Let him know that it's okay to feel shy and there's no embarrassment in letting someone know how you feel or in talking to you and that you want to know him better and to just relax. You won't hurt him.

I think that's what it is. He likes you or wants you as a friend but is petrified of doing any talking for irrational reasons such as sounding stupid or turning you off. You have to show him that you're a patient girl and willing to give him a chance but he has to give you more to work with. Just go to him with an "I'm confused.." conversation and see what happens. It'll get him talking freely.

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