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i hate this feeling..
im a female 18, basically me and my ex ended 2months ago today exact :(
i dont know how to move and get used to the fact of not being with him, we were together around 1 year.
All i do is think of him it annoys me so much..
i know he cares still but he lets his pride take over thats why he dont wanna show any emotions, had to delete him of BBM, facebook and block on twitter :( cause everytime i saw him it reminded me of him..
thing is i'm applying to the same university as he got accepted in this year.. what if i see him again next year? To be honest hes my first real love, never been in love this way never thought a break up will hurt so much it sucks :(
last time we spoke he said 'i know the reason why you deleted me off blackberry messenger, he said it was better we didnt keep in contact so we can move on and forget eachother' :( i didnt reply cause that really hurt.
I feel he hates me , but at the same time theres something in me that says he hasn't moved on..
i know boys are like that they don't ever show emotion . I just simply don't know what to do..
theres guys that ask me out on dates but i just aint ready for dating anyone knew, i thought i started to like someone else but i don't wanna feel guilty and go out with someone just to forget my ex thats really selfish. Hes a great guy and all but i just don't feel that connection between us, were friends but i know he wants more than that, i cant deny that when we don't talk i start to miss him or something , thats weird right?..
Gosh, i start to look back at our old convos and i ask myself where did i go wrong? :(
i don't think im going to be able to date anyone soon , i love my ex an i believe love can over come anything. But im so afraid his feelings will go.
i know he aint moved on cause he really loved me im his first love too.. ah sighhh :(
depressed ... i go out but i just cant seem to enjoy myself anymore
please help :(
thankyou
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It's hard to forget your first love. It took me a long time. I remember how the next guy I dated I felt like I couldn't stop comparing him to my ex. Maybe you just need to be single for awhile. And instead of thinking about him think about yourself and what you want. To be honest sitting around thinking about him isn't going to help you get over him it's just going to make matters worse. You deserve to be happy and maybe you don't want to date now but you will eventually. You will find someone and you will always have the memory of your first love. I still have memories of my first love but then I remember how badly he treated me and it reminds me of why we aren't together. I bump into him every now and then and I say to myself 'what was I thinking?'. You will be fine just take care of yourself and try hard not to think about him too much. Good luck!
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It's hard and there is no easy, quick way. It's gradual. Maybe tomorrow you'll think of him a little less. Maybe the next day you'll be so distracted that you hardly noticed him, but the day after that he's all you'll think about. And then the day after that you might think of him less. Sometimes it takes a really long time to get over someone, but it does eventually happen. You are doing the right thing by giving yourself space from him.
Put forth effort into other things that'll draw your attention away. Is there anything you enjoy, but don't do much of? Art or music? A sport or fashion? Any hobby of some sort. When you find yourself dwelling on him, try to concentrate on something else. That's the only way I know how to get over someone faster. But still, it takes time.
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