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i just touched my penis near her vagina is she pregnant? help: should I give my girlfriend pills to kill the baby? does pills have any side effect?


Question Posted Friday August 31 2012, 6:36 pm

i did'nt had intercourse with my love but i just touched my penis near her vagina & some fluid came out from her vaginal part which touched to my penis..is there is any chance to get pregnant??it happened after last day of her period...how much % chance of getting her pregnant..plz tell me how should i stop this pregnancy..best contraceptive pills...within how many days..should start giving her pills..
does pills have any side effect.. plz tell me..


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sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday September 4 2012, 10:36 pm:
Yes. Of course. Let this be a learning experience for you. Did you really think that it was a good idea to touch yourself in that area like that? I know you probably weren't really thinking too much and it may be difficult to think in times like those, but it's one of the most important times in your life to think and make good decisions. If you're not careful, you're going to end up with a lot more to worry about than a pregnancy scare. Don't try to make what you did sound like it wasn't a big deal by saying that you "just" touched your penis near her vagina. Just? That's kind of a big deal. Own up to your mistake and don't do it again. Further protect yourself by wearing a condom even if you're not having sex. If you can't trust yourself not to make questionable decisions when in the moment, which, judging by what you've done already, you shouldn't, it's best to have that protection in place.

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Xenolan answered Sunday September 2 2012, 1:11 am:
"Kill the baby"? If that's really what you think you're about to try and do, then I really have to wonder what kind of person you are that you would even consider it.

Morning after pills, as they are often called, are used to prevent a fertilized egg from implanting in the wall of the uterus. This is NOT "killing a baby". This is preventing a pregnancy. There is a difference.

In addition, it is your girlfriend's choice insofar as whether she takes pills, whether they're birth control or vitamins. Is this something SHE would want to do? You'll need to clarify that first and foremost.

Consult Planned Parenthood for advice on where to get the morning after pill, and what the laws are in your area insofar as whether she can have it; some states have age restrictions, or require a prescription.

Finally, although there is a chance of pregnancy with the scenario you describe, it isn't very likely. It's impossible to say how likely it was, though. But since there is indeed a chance, this is something you really shouldn't do anymore without some kind of prevention method already in place. Planned Parenthood can help you with that as well.

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orphans answered Saturday September 1 2012, 5:11 pm:
I think you've asked a similar question.

What pills are you thinking? Birth control? You shouldn't give her any old pills. You need to check with the certain specific pills. And I'm not sure what country you are from, and so it depends on what contraceptives (brands) are available to you.

The best thing you can do is to ask her to take a couple pregnancy tests, two weeks after the incident. She may not even be pregnant, so you seriously need to calm down.

It's improbable that she is, but there's no harm in being sure.

So calm down. See a doctor if you must, for relevant contraception. Side effects depend on the pill.

That's all the help I can be.

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orphans answered Saturday September 1 2012, 4:19 am:
Yes there is. The penis releases 'pre-cum', a natural lubricant that contains sperm. And only 1 sperm cell is needed to become pregnant. So if 1 got in, she could in theory become pregnant.

Ask her to take a couple pregnancy test 2 weeks afte rthe incident.

Next time, wear a condom, or leave your clothes on.

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