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will sex hurt??
hi. I use tampons and my bf has fingered me before so my cherry is deffinately popped but im wondering if having sex for the fisrt time will hurt. hes fingered me with 3 fingers before because i kinda like it rough and that does hurt but i like it so will sex feel the same???
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Sex by default doesn't have to hurt the first time, but like with many things, it will hurt if you do it wrong, which is not unlikely due to lack of experience. Porn is definitely a bad place to get ideas, because it focuses on what looks good on camera rather than what feels good for either party. The basic idea is use protection, and make sure you are well lubricated (preferably naturally, if not that then use a lube (make sure it's not an oil based lube, as that can wear down the condom) or you can use a prelubricated condom. If something isn't feeling right, don't feel bad about readjusting, or telling him to do something different. It might take you a few tries to get it right, and that's normal.
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It may hurt. Be sure to engage in foreplay, i.e. fingering etc, before sex. This will relax your body, and prepare it.
Use a condom, as it will prevent pregnancy, and also help the penis enter better. Use a lubricant also.
If you are fingered, the opening will be stretched enough to allow the penis to enter comfortably. But it may still hurt. Like I say, just relax.
Have fun!
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