17/f. I've always been attracted to girls, for as long as I can remember... But I never realized it was sexual until I became a teenager. I have never acted on these feelings. I think I'm finally ready now... But how do I find other girls like me?
How will I know what to do once I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AskCupid answered Tuesday September 4 2012, 1:57 pm: This is a very good topic seeing one of my best friends is gay she's only attracted to women the hardest thing she went through was making her parents understand, after a while her parents got use to it and they are okay now quiet honestly. I'm not sure how she picks up women but she sure does so you will defiantly find someone that will make you happy you can try online dating (badoo)is a good app ....you need to just have a bit of fun with your feelings and see which one your attracted to more if you want more advice you can post in another story or inbox me personally. Best of luck. Jesse XOXOXXX [ AskCupid's advice column | Ask AskCupid A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday August 30 2012, 7:13 am: This is really difficult, because it depends on how comfortable you are with your sexuality.
If you are open about it, and have told friends, you can ask them if they know anyone. Do you have any friends that have said that may be curious?
One good way for adults is gay bars/clubs. Either that or dating sites. But bars/clubs are usually people just looking for sex (both straight and gay), and online dating can be a bit risky, especially if you are meeting them.
But the best way is just to take up hobbies you enjoy. You will meet people who have similar interests, and of course make new friends. Then, eventually, you may meet someone.
When you find someone, just ask them if they would like to go out. You will be able to sense it, if it's right. It is of course difficult to know whether you are out as friends, or on a date. But that's something you just pick up through experience, the atmosphere, and language.
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