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Why doesn't mothers listen to they daughters?


Question Posted Wednesday August 29 2012, 1:12 pm

I hate my mom she always lets me down i want a new family, a new life and a new happnnes.I hate my mom because she made me lose a lot of friends,now when i go to school it looks like no one wants to talk to me, because my mom took me back 7th grade and than she made me do 6th grade math. I want my old life back. I want to move and to have a new life.

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NewBeginnings answered Sunday September 23 2012, 12:04 pm:
Hey, look please please please dont say your hate your mum and you want a new family! I'm speaking from experience! I wish i had my real family (Im adopted) i wouldnt even care if my real parents were horrible at least you have things in similar, there must be a reason your mother has done what she has, i promise! Try talking it out with her and seeing her point, if you want to move ask to go to boarding school somewhere cool and exotic! Dont lose your temper just left her explain and finish then start speaking. <3

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GiddyGeezer answered Saturday September 1 2012, 1:21 pm:
Having to repeat 7th grade must be hard for you but unfortunately this IS the situation you are in. It is not going to change, so all you can do is make some changes about how you are going to deal with it. You can blame your mom and make yourself miserable or start talking to your classmates and make some new friends. Whether you know it or not you are in a pretty good position here. Since you are older the other kids probably think you are pretty cool which is probably why they are afraid to talk to you. Start talking to them and I'm sure you will have new friends soon. As for your old friends if they are really your friends they will keep in touch even if you go to a different school. You say you want a new life, well in a way you already do have a new life. If you moved and went to a new school you would be in a class full of kids who don't know you and won't talk to you(sound familiar?)This really is NOT as bad as it seems. If you are friendly to your new classmates they will accept you in time. How about trying to forgive mom, I'll bet she loves you very much. If she was concerned enough for your future to go to your school and choose your classes then she really does care. Some parents don't even show up at school when their kids have a problem. I'll bet if you go to her without all the hate and tell her how bad this hurts she will be there for you. Good luck and hang in there!

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