Hello everyone.
I am from India.
I am 40 years old and have 3 kids.
I am in deep love with a girl who is also married. I love her so deeply.
Our relationship has been very close and we have had sex very often.
I very sincerely love her to the extend that if she talks with a young male or shares a laugh with a guy I am very much annoyed
I am quite sure that I am wrong. I know very well that she doesnt belong to me. One day or other we have to depart.
But I cant forget and cant give up her for anything. She is my collegue in our office.
I have been deeply loving her for 1 year. Now she realises that she is wrong and she believes in sentiments and she thinks that if she continues our relationship god will punish us by doing something bad for her kid. She too has a daughter.
But I can never forget her. But my inner consiousness says that if our relationship continues, then it is too difficult for us to get seperated.
Don't speak to each other. Don't meet. Avoid each other.
You are both married. You both have families. If you really want to be together, then you have to leave your respective partners. And you have to deal with divorces, and make arrangements for children.
Keep that in mind, every time you are tempted.
But you just have to go through it. Discuss it with each other: how you will avoid each other.
But that's all you can do. Take lunch at different times and placed. Keep to your own circles of friends. Delete the numbers from your phones. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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