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We kissed, but now...nothing.
I'm 16. I used to like this guy last school year and I ended up telling him and he told me he liked me back and we kissed. He is 16 also. After that I thought we were going to be together or start hanging out with eachother more, but we didn't. Over the summer I got over him, but now that school started again all my feelings have rushed back. I don't want to like him again because I don't want to put myself in the same situation where I was hurt. Now he is flirting with me and I can't help but like it. I want to know why he would kiss me and that's it. I don't know if I should give me and him another try or not.
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I've been in a similar situation. He probably isn't looking for a relationship. If he did want a relationship with you, he would've asked you out and put effort into hanging out with you right?
If you don't want to put yourself in that situation again, don't start talking to him again. I mean, you need to completely get over him by talking to other guys and doing something else with your time rather than thinking about him and flirting with him.
If you still want to consider him, then you should talk to him. Tell him that you're not looking for some fling and you want something real. If he's willing to do that, then ok. But if not, then you know what's on his mind and you can move on.
I was involved with a guy and we told each other we liked each other. We never dated, only kissed and all that. We did it multiple times. I liked him sooo much that I would put myself in those stupid positions. I got hurt so often because I wanted more and he didn't.
So trust me, don't let yourself fall even harder for him than you already are. It's not worth it if he doesn't want the same things.
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