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What should you do if you hurt a guy friend that you like?
Me and guy A were best friends, we liked each other very much. But two years ago, guy B wrote a love letter to me, I was immature and curious so I started hanging out with him, we became very close and everyone thought we were dating. I never liked guy B. I didn't response to what people were saying, but I forgot to care about how guy A is feeling. Guy A started to ignore me, he believed that I was dating guy B. I thought he was just angry and didn't know until now that he was very jealous then. Last year, I moved to America to study there, I didn't contact them both until this summer when I came back for vacation. I invited some of my old friends for dinner, and they invited guy A. Guy A treated me like he didn't know me before, he must have thought that I wasn't the girl who he think I was. He must have been very disappointed. I really love guy A, I didn't stop loving him at all, but he didn't knew. I really regret what I did to him. It's been a year, so I know that he has already decided to move on. I am going back to America next week, and I want nothing more than a forgiveness. What should I do? Should I invite him out and tell him everything? Or should I just move on?
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Well if you still love guy A then u should go for it! Even if says he doesn't feel the same, at least u tryed and then for sure you'll know if you whould have moved on or not! It's better if you talk to him insted of moving on because you'll always have in mind that feeling you have for him!
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This situation is completely up to you. You can give him an apology if that will make you feel better and help you move on. Just explain everything to him and then let him go.
If you think you will still have feelings for him if you do that, then you should just completely let him go and move on.
Either way, in my opinion, is fine.
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