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I need help im confused ..
Hi My Name Is Erin , I'm 13 Years Old Soon To Be 14 In December.. I'm Scared To Lose My Virginity But I Want To... My Friend Adriane Also Wants Me To .. She Tries To Get Me To Do Things Like That .. I Got Forced To Do Thing (Pressured) I Need Help.. My Sister Also Brag About Having Sex.. & My Friend Mariah Lost Her Virginity At 11 & Just Turned 12 Last Year ... I Had Mine Longer Than Her. Please Give Me Advice. My Mom Moved To Florida My Dad I Don't Wanna Talk To About This .. Please Help Me .. Kay , Thanks Bye.
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Hunnie, I lost my virginty when I turned 15. Let me tell you, I regret it! I'm 20 now, and I look back and wished I would've saved that special moment for my fiance'. He was a virgin when we got together.
There is nothing special about sex at your age. It's just 'doing it' that makes it appealing. Like, just to be able to say, 'I've had sex.'
So many guys will respect you for keeping your virginity until you are 17+. Once you have sex, guys will not respect you as much, because they believe you do not respect yourself. When I lost mine, I got called a whore and a slut. How can someone be a whore or a slut when they only had sex with ONE guy? It makes people talk. I wish I could have said, I'm not a whore! I'm still a virgin! Because I couldn't.
I was with my boyfriend at the time, for 5 months- he was 2 years older than me. As soon as we had sex, he left me for his ex. I was devestated. That is all guys your age want. It's hard to find a guy who will love you and not just want in your pants.
You will do what you want, but trust me- personally, your friends aren't cool, and they aren't grown up. They are desperate for attention and statistics show that 87% of girls who have sex before the age of 14 will turn out to be pregnant (due to lack of knownledge about protection) or have an STD from sleeping with so many guys.
Please don't fall into that statistic.
Let me tell you something else. My neice just turned 13. She had sex with a guy at her friend's birthday party, and she found out three days ago that she is pregnant. She is a child, having a child. All it takes is one time. Do you want to risk that??
She was too afraid to my sister and brother in law for birth control even though she knew she was going to become sexually active; now she will have to support a baby, give up school, and everything else.
Do you want that?
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