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BLOW JOBS
Why do men love blowjobs and what happens if you dont give them one
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The reasons men like it is fivefold:
1. It is a different sort of stimulation than the hand or the vagina on the penis and feels amazing.
2. It is very direct stimulation of the penis.
3. There is a visual factor. Men are very visually driven and seeing a girl on her knees in a seemingly submissive posture turns guys on.
4. Christianity says that oral sex is sodomy and therefore a bozo no no, which thus imbues it with the air of the forbidden fruit. As the drug trade proves, forbidden fruit is a big seller with Americans.
5. The whole madonna-whore thing. The bj is something that is often perceived that only bad girls do and so when you have someone who appears to others as a so-called "nice girl" and she has her yapper on your pipe that's hot to a lot of guys.
As for what will happen if you don't do it, you won't have a penis in your mouth and that is about it in a general sense. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do unless those actions are required by law. If giving head isn't your thing then don't do it. There are going to be guys who will reject you because of that, though. Everything we do has consequences and if a guy says he can't stand being with a chick who won't orally milk his root then you just gotta find someone who doesn't care if you do that or not.
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I am not a man, but I think that one of the main reasons why they like it is because they don't have to do any work. It's a wonderful gift for someone to give to them. If you don't give them one, they don't get one. Nothing happens. I'm not sure what you're meaning to ask. If someone is trying to pressure you into doing it, tell them to stop. Immediately. Be very clear and direct. If they continue to pressure you or threaten to break up with you, you're going to want to deeply consider whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with this person. You don't want to be with someone that doesn't respect you. A lot of women don't like giving them, but some do. Decide for yourself what you want. Good luck! :)
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