Is masturbation safe? Yes. Be sure to use lubrication, to ensure that you are properly moisturized. Use proper lubrication, not body lotion/shampoo etc because this can cause infections.
Is sex without using a condom safe? No. The female can become pregnant. It is also unsafe because you can catch/pass on STDs and STIs (sexually transmitted disease/infection).
Now, if you are married, and have only one sexual partner (your spouse), and are trying for children, and have both been tested, then of course it is fine.
So use condoms as unprotected sex will lead to pregnancy, diseases, and infections. Also be sure to get regularly tested by your doctor. Both of you that is. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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