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have sex and stay a virgin
me and this guy my bf want to have sex but want to stay virgins until married we are fifteen and sugesstions
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Okay, first, there is nothing dirty about sex. The "purity" argument the religious nuts make about holding off sex does a disservice to the public at large. Sex is fun and life affirming if both partners care for each other and can honestly communicate about it.
Nonetheless, the rational person says that teenagers, because they still have developing brains and thus aren't all that cognizant of consequences for their actions, should not have sex because the consequences can be serious and life changing at a time when they aren't mature enough to realize the possible implications, including psychological ones, let alone raise a family. Unfortunately, as long as organized religion keeps dangling sex as a forbidden fruit, teenagers will be forever attracted to it.
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If you can't be a virgin if you have sex.
Till you get married, you are going to want to have sex. But in my opinion, if you wait, it will be worth it. You should wait until you both are ready. Right now, you're still second guessing it because you do want to wait.
I mean, your virginity is one thing you can't get back.
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Its simple either you get married and then have sex or maybe trying something else like oral sex or even watching each other play with each other but yeah not much you can do other than that.
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Sorry but once you have sex, you're no longer a virgin. There is no way around it. I suggest that you wait until marriage or until you are truly ready. Don't be in a rush to have sex becase you're still young and you have plenty of time.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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