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If you were chronically/deformed?


Question Posted Friday August 3 2012, 4:59 am

If you were, would you consider ending it all to allow your long term partner to move on to a normal life. If your condition meant no sex was possible and you could not go out ever. Life was suddenly stopped in its tracks. What would you do?

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adviceman49 answered Saturday August 4 2012, 10:14 am:
Short answer: No. There is more to life and love then sex. There are also alternatives for relieving ones pent up sexual needs without resorting to cheating or prostitution, male or female.

Not knowing all the facts I would still believe your partner should have something to say about whether or not he or she wants out of this relationship. This is not a decision you need to make for he or she and it does not require such a drastic action. Even if you are totally dependent on him or her for your care. There are alternatives that can be made for your care should your partner want his or her freedom.

Suicidal thoughts are the result of deep depression. Depression in and of itself clouds common sense to the point that you do not see things clearly. I believe the National Suicide prevention hotline can be of help to you. It is a toll free number that is open 24/7. The volunteers will talk with you as long as you need to talk. They will then help you find the right professional in your area to work with you. Their number is 1-800-273-TALK (8255). Please call them.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem that hurts everyone that loves you. I suffer from Chronic pain and I will for the rest of my life. My doctors tell me never to give up hope for a cure to my problem as new treatments are discovered all the time. While I do not know exactly what has happened to you, I will offer you the same advise. Never give up hope of the doctors finding a way to fix whatever is wrong with you. It happens all the time.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Friday August 3 2012, 12:44 pm:
There is never any good reason to end your own life. Your partner can make their own choices about what they want to do. Your partner hasn't left you and really cares about you. They have free choice and could leave you if that's what they wanted to do, but they haven't. It would hurt them more than you could possibly imagine if you took your own life. They would feel an inconceivable amount of guilt and pain. I wouldn't be able to kill myself because I wouldn't want to cause them that kind of pain. Do not do that to someone that loves you. Killing yourself is not the best choice that you have. Please call this number and talk to someone about what you're feeling and what your other choices are.

1-800-273-8255

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