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Boyfriend problem :(
Hi, Im 19 and so is my boyfriend. I was pregnant and was having a tubal pregnancy so they removed it this Sunday. Before my pregnancy we weren't together but once i got pregnant with him he came back. I told him the only reason he got back with me was because of the baby. he keeps telling me thats a lie. well anyways yesterday i told him to go to my house. He couldn't because he was at a party, so he told me he would come the day after. so I called him today and he was sleeping almost the whole day. I go on Facebook and i see hes at the movie theater with his friends and a girl that's likes him a lot. im so dissapointed. After I told him to meet me at my place he does something else. I keep texting him but no reply because hew in the movie theaters. I have a bad feeling specially with this girl at the movies. i don't know what to do anymore. I feel like im the only one fighting to keep the relationship going. What should I tell him or do? please help me out . Sorry this is long :(
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If he is lying to you and ignoring you and going out with another girl you deserve so much better! I know that you probably care about him a lot but that doesnt mean you should sit back and have to deal with this. He needs to grow up and get his priorities straight! The best thing for you to do is go out and have fun! Don't let him see that it is bothering you. Maybe he will realize what you guys had and straighten up... if not then you need to find someone who will treat you right! I hope this helps(:
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If I were you I would break up with him, I know it is hard because I am sure that the two of you have been through a lot together. However you do not seem happy with the current state of your relationship, and whether or not your boyfriend is back together with you because of the pregnancy, or is with you because he really cares about you; the truth is you no longer feel comfortable in this relationship, and you need to find a relationship that you are secure in. Rule of thumb for me, NEVER get back with an ex boyfriend because the two of you broke up for a reason.
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It does, as horrible as it may be, sound like he doesn't want to be with you. So, instead of fighting over a guy who doesn't support you, why not jsut let him go?
I appriciate that the idea of being a single parent can be quite scary, but you shouldn't stay with someone for the sake of the baby, because the relationship will only get even more strain put on it.
If I were you I'd explain how you feel. Do it lightly for now, as he is entitled to freedom. Say something like 'I just feel like we're growing apart' or 'do you think you could support me a bit more'
By saying this he'll act in one of two ways: agree or disagree.
If he agrees its for the best, because its better to split up with someone before they have the chance to cheat.
Jut remember that he may have found someone else, but in the future you'll find someone else who accepts you for you and does actually support you, and he'll live to regret it.
I know it may be hard to actually sit someone down and tell them how you feel, but you have to think about whether you'll be happy in 1 or even 10 years time if things continue as they are.
Good luck with everything :)
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