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confused and curious.
okay so im 14 and there's a guy whos been sending me sexual texts like "heyy;)" and "are you in your room;)" and before it used to be "hey:)" also he has been getting more touchy feely with me. I'm kind of curious about all of the whole sexual relations and whatnot but i am thinking that id feel guilty afterwards and school would just be really awkward. i want to give in and see what its like but then again i dont... any advice?
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DO NOT GIVE IN! You are WAY too young to be involved sexually. You're just a kid. And if you do give you will regret it when you're older. Wait until marriage. Plus if you give in now, he'll know he can get you to do anything he wants. Don't give in.
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You aren't ready to proceed the into physical activity, If you were, You wouldn't be here asking.
Maybe it's not exactly considered "sexual" but it's the start, As long as the kid knows he can sweet talk his way in of course it's going to only lead to more.
If you are uncomfortable TELL HIM, Never ever let a guy continue to make you uncomfortable or lead you to something you aren't ready. Many boys will pretty much tell a girl whatever they want to hear as long as they think it will get them what they want.
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Hon, I went through this. That's not exactly sexual, but when he starts asking "What are you wearing? ;)" You know you're in deep. I also wanted to know, and I fell for it. Then my family found out and the only thing I could think about is - I regret this so much. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with, or anything that you'll regret. I've lost my family's trust, and trust me, nothing is worst than looking at you're family and seeing that look of disgust and distrust in their eyes. Think about what could happen and what your family and friends might think. The "Yolo" only works in song lyrics, not life. You're only 14, you've got lots of time to do the nasty later. Focus on your studies and having a good, but safe, time. If other girls want to be you-know-whats, let them. You be the hard to get, no nonsense girl. Best of luck! {:
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