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my dad and his wife just had a baby how should i feel about this?
im 21 have a younger brother 18 a younger sister 12 my dad had an affair on my mum when she was 3 and left to be with this other woman. they hve been together 7 years now. i fell preggers and told her and the first thing she said to me was that she wanted to have a baby too well 4 months later she came out and said she was 3 months preggers this was supose to be my time to shine with the glow and the big belly at now 7months my nana didnt even care about me any more she was all over my step mum like a rash, she was never there for us other kids she never got us prezzents or visited us. and she was already buying stuff for this baby and shes always at there house. anyways she has now had the baby and i feel real weird my son has a aunt 4 months younger then him i really didnt think my dad wanted more kids but nows he is saying im not goin to make the same mistakes what does he mean by that r we screw ups to him? he use to smack us as kids well me and my brother my sister was too little he reacon hes not going to smack this kid and he is going to do everything different. i dono what to think whats ur input????
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Well, before anything, CONGRATULATIONS!! :D, and what's her deal? It sounds like she does these things to overshadow you. But, don't let any of this negativity take impact on you! Live life, enjoy your baby, raise your baby in a positive environment, your father is a grown man and is living HIS life, you should not worry too much about THEIR life, and pay attention to yours! @(ᵕ.ᵕ)@ Make sure your happy
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To me it sounds like your dad has a problem with filtering. He's telling you things you should never tell your own children and on that part he's wrong. As for the new child, the baby is your sibling so you need to love him even if you cant stand her 'parents'. Also look at it this way, your child will have someone in the family that is their age who they can potentially grow up with, its not a bad thing and sometimes extended families do work out very well. Just remember that keeping your child safe and healthy is the most important thing, not just physically but mentally and emotionally. If they treat him badly, then they arent worth having in your life.
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