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Blood from vagina, not my period.
Ok so 13/f and I recenttly started masterbating a bit for my own pleasure and because I've been feeling stressed lately. I read online that masterbating was like fingering yourself (2 fingers) I started out with one finger and Ive used one finger for a while now. Today, I wanted to try 2 fingers and in the shower I masterbated and it hurt to get both fingers in my vsgina and I only got the tips before it hurt too much. I didnt want to force my body but I did and I shoved both fingers up my vagina as hard as I could so I could loosen it abit. I pulled my fingers out and I noticed blood on my fingers. I am not currently on my period because that doesnt start for about 2 more weeks and I dont know why I had blood on my fingers and Im keeping a pad on just incase it leaks. Help? Idont knoww why im bleeding!
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You just broke your hymen, honey, it's okay. On the bright side; the first time you have sex won't be very painful (if at all).
And no you aren't broken or anything, just because your hymen is broken. Many girls break their hymen riding horseback, riding a bike, and so on. So it's not uncommon to have a broken hymen, even done this way. Many girls break their own hymen accidentally while exploring their body and masturbating.
So there's nothing to worry about, and it just bleed a little then stops. It won't keep bleeding or anything.
And if you bleed again while masturbating or even while being fingered (another person inserts their fingers in and out just as you have done) it is most likely you have just accidentally made a little cut some where in or on your vagina. Even a really small cut might bleed a lot (my ex did that, I thought he broke something inside or something really bad) but it was actually a really small cut on my labia (outer part of the vagina). It bled a lot but it was nothing at all. I freaked out, so while on the topic I figured I'd let you know. put a pad in (not a tampon) until it's done. This will most likely happen to you (as it probably happens to every female at least once).
Keep your nails trimmed, and make sure any partner you have does the same
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From what you have written I will believe you are a virgin with a fully intact Hymen, also known as your cherry. When you shoved your fingers up your vagina you may have torn or separated you Hymen which would cause some bleeding. It should stop in a day or so. If it doesn't you will have to tell mom and see a doctor so the doctor can remove the remnants of your Hymen.
You don't have to tell mom you were masturbating. Your Hymen could have separated from doing many things from bike riding to exercising. All you need to do is tell mom your bleeding and it is not time for your period and yes you are still a virgin.
Don't be embarrassed or concerned about masturbating, its natural and according to a recent survey 85% of us do it, which would include your parents. Parents do it as part of foreplay for sex an is called mutual masturbation which includes HJs, BJs and oral sex. Yes parents actually do these things.
Yes you are still a virgin even if you tore or lost your Hymen. By current definition you are a virgin until a boys penis actually penetrates your vagina and you have intercourse.
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Were you still a virgin? Have you ever had intercourse before? If not, chances are you MIGHT have broken your hymen. If you aren't sure what a hymen is, it is what kids call "The Cherry". and so forth. Perhaps, when you forcefully inserted your fingers in, it was too much for your hymen to handle and it ended up ripping.
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