How to react when a guy gets a boner while cuddling?
Question Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 3:34 pm
If you're cuddling or spooning with a guy and he happens to get an erection what should the girl do to make things less awkward? Do you just continue to cuddle, or do you back away and give it time? or should you take things to the next step?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? holla13 answered Thursday July 12 2012, 10:57 am: Well, guys do get boners alot especially while going through puberty. Anywho, just try not to be obvious about everything. If you feel it then, lay down the other way where you see the closest pillow then place it between you two. This kind of thing happens to me all the time. When a guy comes and hugs me I feel they're having a boner moment and I don't try to be obvious. What I do is just hug them back, because it doesn't bother me. It's not like they have a boner because they want to have sex with me. I mean it totally happens to people you know. If it doesn't bother keep cuddling and enjoy the moment. If it does bother you, try to put half your body out so you don't feel it, but waist and up keep it close to him. Hope I've helped :) [ holla13's advice column | Ask holla13 A Question ]
x0xqtpiex0 answered Wednesday July 11 2012, 10:33 pm: If it doesn't bother you, ignore it. Guys get boners about 10 times a day, it just happens. If you like the guy and want to do more, go ahead. Just start kissing and it will progress from there. Don't worry about it though, it's completely natural. [ x0xqtpiex0's advice column | Ask x0xqtpiex0 A Question ]
Xanadu answered Wednesday July 11 2012, 10:03 pm: There are two things you can really do about this. If you are about to spoon you could place a small flat pillow between the two of you that way you wouldnt feel it if he did or you could roll over when you do feel it and face him, maybe have him put an arm around you while you both lay on your back and have him hold you. Just try not to embarass the guy. [ Xanadu's advice column | Ask Xanadu A Question ]
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