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Pregnant and boyfriend problem.
Im a month pregnant. Im 19 and so is my boyfriend. well before me being pregnant he was with another girl. then he broke up with her to be with me. the problem is that he hardly text's me, on Saturday he goes to his party's and don even sends me a text. when i complain to him he tel;ls me "You should of had texted me" He dosnt look to have time for me. But if it were his friends and his girls i know 100% that he will be there. I been stressing so much and he knows im pregnant and only asks for the baby once in the conversation. he tells me he's very happy that im going to have his kid. In person hes a different story hes always hugging and kissing me. On Facebook their friends are always tagging him "in the lake having fun with so and so" this bothers me a lot. He asked me what i was doing for july 4th and he told me he was going to the lake and DIDN'T even invited me :( I don't know what to do anymore , im tired of talking to him. What do you think i should do ? i don't want my baby to feel the stress.
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Alrighty. Well I can imagine how difficult this may be for you. Take a deep breath and calm yourself down before taking any decision. Now from what I've read, he may just be with you for the baby. Just because he says he's happy you're having his baby doesn't mean he's being sincere about it, or that he wants to be with you. Maybe he's saying it just to make you happy. He's probably saying what you want to hear, not what he feels. Going out with his friends may be his way of taking a break, but he should know this is when you most need it. Talk to him about it. Also, try not to be a pain in the ass. Yes it's hard, and yes sometimes you want to cry for no reason and fight for stupid things but if you want him to include you in more of his life, you have to make him feel like he wants you there. Be happy, smile around him, tell him how much you care and don't make him go through tough shit. Now the previous advice is if you want him to be by your side, now if you're more worried about your baby and yourself, I advise you leave him be and take care of your baby. A lot of women stay with their lovers just for the baby's sake, when in reality they hurt not only themselves but also the baby. If there is no connection with your boyfriend, don't force it. The baby will feel it, you'll feel it and he will too. Taking a break, and resuming with your life may be the best thing to do. If he misses you, he'll come after you but if he continues doing this, then he probably didn't care from the begining. Tell him how you feel, every little detail of it, but don't scream it out when he's drunk. No, instead take a time where your both together, no one else around and you know you can make the point without coming off as offensive. Make sure he understands your point, and let him defend himself as well. Who knows? he may have a valid point. Best of luck, and health for your future baby! [:
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