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friendship ending :'(
ok, so last week my friend "R" got a second piercing in her ear. (my mom DID NOT know) then about a few days ago my momsurprized me and took me to get my ears pierced. when I told my other friend, "D" that, she said,, oh you copied R , good for you.
it made me cry so hard because everyone (d and r) is always telling me im a copy cat since i got ALMOST. BARELY the same haircut as D even though it was lterally months after and she didnt have it anymore. so I kinda over reacted and blew up. then she got mad and told me that even after school starts she and R wont be my friends. I have my other friend, A. but she always follows R. but they're my only friends and im scared what if i have to become friends with the new kid but they are weird? anyway what should I do because im crying as i type this :(
ps: i have a problem where if someone insults (even a little bit) me i start crying or i feel horrible but nobody knows.
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Alrighty. Well, it seems that you've become the unwanted in your group of friends. If you've always been together, it may just be that you need some time apart. Same people, same fights, same arguments, same conversations get boring. Maybe they're just tired of you, as mean as it sounds and you'd be very surprised at what talking to new people may do to you. You might find people who like you, respect you and actually stick around for you. I personally take a week off from my friends, I hang around with different people and talk to people who I'd normally wouldn't talk with, this gives me a little more confidence, and being more known is never bad! Just try to get out there, start with a simple, "Hello." Keep the convo relax and natural and you'll see what your current friends are doing wrong. If you like to copy, then there's no shame in that. If you like it, you can try doing it but as the saying goes, "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery" They shouldn't get so mad that you have the same hairstyle, or a similar piercing or even some mutual music or whatever else. It's just normal, your friends so you're bound to like some things that they like. Just don't be afraid to be yourself, you are perfect, and your worth more than you think! You don't need to have the sluts hair to have more boy attention, you don't need to have the bad-ass's piercing to be a little more accepted and you do not need to have the same shirt as that cute girl to be more noticed. You are you, you should have your own style and start focusing on figuring out who you are, and putting together what you want for yourself! It's hard but not impossible! Best of luck [:
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