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She took my friends away from me
Hi,
Ok so I've just finished my first year at college (I am 16/17)from England.
When I started at college I sat with my group of friends and everything was fine. However, theres this one girl who joined our circle in year 10 and she talks to me and my twin as if we are inferior and I've always felt unwanted when shes there (which was all the time)
So in the end me and my twin went off every lunch time to sit on our own. As you can imagine, there gets to be a point where this is very depressing.
So how do I get back in with my group of freinds again? Btw I'm pretty shy.
Thanks
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Remain eating with them and socializing in the old places and if this girl comes do one of two things. Ignore her outright and don't draw attention to her behavior towards her or confront her behavior in front of others and ask why she insists on making you both feel small.
Before you do this let your friends know your feelings as they can back you up. Don't deny yourselves a good time with friends or friends for that matter over someone else being a pain in the ass to be with. Treat her as if she doesn't matter when around you. She wants a reaction or to isolate you from others. Don't afford her the opportunity. Shy or not you have to ROAR and put an end to the crap.
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