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Make friends again?
Hi,16/17 from England.
In the past year or so as I've started college I've become seperate from my group of friends.
The thing was, back in September this girl whose been in our circle since year 10, I felt as really talking down to me and my twin sister, making us feel inferior. Saying stuff like 'have you found any new freinds yet?'
So in the end me and my sister decided it'd be best to eat lunch alone, but now I want to get back with my friends again, because obvs its a bit depressing. How do I do this and make contact again, as I'm shy and wouldn't want to feel unwanted once more. Thanks :)
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Truthfully, I think you should talk to some other people. You'd be surprised at the possibilities. Open up a little, be open to talking to people you have never even given a second thought to before. Those are the people that usually end up staying in your life. Of course, there are others who truly don't care. It all depends really. I love my friends to death, but sometimes I need a week off. I talk to other crowds, to other people and I end up having a lot more friends, being a little more known is never a bad thing, and eventually, this will help in your social life. Having the same friends, same routines, same conversations, same fights gets boring once in a while. Take a break and meet some new people. This doesn't mean you should ever forget about your old friends, I take a week off from mine and they do so as well. By Friday, we are all back together and we have a new conversation and something other than the usual to talk about. If you still want to stick with your old friends, go ahead and just ask them for a pencil or something, then start by saying, "How have you been?" and so on.
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